Funnels are tidy. But the world we live in isn’t. And that’s precisely the point.
The real problem with the funnel isn’t just that it feels outdated in a digital world. It’s that it was always the wrong metaphor. It suggests we can map behaviour in stages, push the right messages at the right time, and reliably move people toward purchase like pieces on a board.
But people don’t want to be moved. They want to find things in their own way. To discover a brand in the middle of a conversation. To see it reflected by someone they trust. To recognise it in a visual language they already understand. They want to choose in ways that feel personal and self-directed.
It might look messy. Unpredictable. Hard to track. However, it’s authentically human for all of those reasons. Maybe the real failure isn’t that the funnel no longer works, but that it ever pretended to describe how people actually make decisions. I don’t think buying has ever been purely logical. It’s always been part social, emotional, and cultural.
And that’s why the better metaphor isn’t a funnel at all, instead it’s a loop. Something continuous, recursive, and self-reinforcing. A pattern of encounters, impressions, and messages that builds over time. Not a single path we design, but an ecosystem we participate in.
That doesn’t mean marketing has lost its power. It simply means its role has changed. Maybe it’s time to let go of the idea that our job is to engineer conversions through perfect, optimised stages. Maybe it’s time to see our real task more honestly: earning a place in culture.
Not shepherding people through a funnel, but creating enough meaning, relevance, and alignment that choosing us feels like their idea. Not controlling the journey, but sustaining the loop. Not shouting for attention, but being worth returning to, again and again.
Gen Z broke the funnel. And maybe that’s the best thing they could have done for us.